Imagine new lonely life

Just got a news from my future classmates. He will be staying in the residence gay lussac, which is different from my residence. Haih~ even though I already knew that this would happen, but still when I was confirmed, I was still filling dissapointed and sad.

That meeans, I will need to walk to school and walk back homw alone everyday! and when i got problems with my study, it wouldn't be easy to discuss with him already. But actually, the true problem is that during winter, it will be dark and cold, and I'll be walking all alone on the streets with a small torchlight...Oh! Imagaine that!

Haih..what to do. That's life. I bet many of my friends or my seniors were living like future-me for years already over there. This is part of my challenges that I gotta face. Be brave!

You can geh!! Jia you!

There's a kind of person. They secretly hope that someone will do something for them, most of the time it's a small matter, e.g. ask how are you doing recently, offer a coffee or tea, ask to be careful when crossing roads etc, those little caring actions. When their wish wasn't fulfilled, they will upset with that person secretly in their heart, thinking why couldn't he/she do that, while making excuses for them.

Isn't that funny and sarcastic?

So, to prevent this, stop expecting people to do things.

I really dunno how to write this post, too many stuffs in my mind now, and it's disorder.

Really hope that you'll know everything in my mind just like that.

Why there isn't any machine to read people's mind?

Haih...:(

I just want a greeting from you, a message, anything...

无事不登三宝座

When your phone rings or you receive a message suddenly, and it shows that it is from a friend that you have not contact for a long time, beware!

It's true that we shouldn't 以小人之心度君子之腹. But, this is the reality. If they ask for some help that we can offer, it doesn't matter. But if it beyonds what we can, "I'm sorry, I can't." But, sometimes, it is not easy to get ourselves out even when we refuse or they don't understand us.

This is part of the lessons that we need to learn while we grow, everyone of us. How to prepare yourself to an uncomfortable situation without breaking the relationship. Even maybe the person is not that important for you, now, but contacts are very important. Noone can be suceed without others' help.

Keep a contact! Who knows you'll be the one who visit people's三宝座。