Friday, September 30, 2011
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Just saw a blog of a friend of friend, who's now complaining about living alone at overseas.
This reminds me of how I felt last time when I always felt alone and lifeless inside my room, facing my laptop, diving into the internet world, instead of hanging out with friends, laughing and chatting with them.
The feeling of loneliness arose even higher when it came to a festival back in M'sia, expecially Chinese New Year, or my beloved ones' birthdays, or seeing my friends having fun chatting on facebook etc.
I'm glad that I don't feel like that anymore. There are several reasons for this. First, I've changed my thoughts, not to define friendships as I used to have at school last time, people and the environment are different, I can't put myself in the past anymore, I got to jump out, open my heart for newcomers, especially, and accept the new "mode" while building the friendships here. Second, I do hang out, chat and talk with my friends, do some activities with them. Everything goes smoothly. I'm feeling happy with what I have now. And I'm glad that I have someone to listen to all my complains, stupid stories n bla bla bla~~:)
I miss my family and friends too back at Port Dickson. We grow up together, we sometimes have small fights and got back together again, we listen we share, that's irreplaceable. But I know, we cant stay side by side together the whole life, like we used to have in the small class at school. We sometimes have to face things alone, or with others. It doesn't mean that we abandon you, but how can they help you? We are not talking about movies, or dramas, this is the reality. You know well they are inside your heart, and you too, are inside their hearts.
Open your mind and heart, accept the new ones, you'll find out that they are amazing too! Be strong, friend's friend:)
This reminds me of how I felt last time when I always felt alone and lifeless inside my room, facing my laptop, diving into the internet world, instead of hanging out with friends, laughing and chatting with them.
The feeling of loneliness arose even higher when it came to a festival back in M'sia, expecially Chinese New Year, or my beloved ones' birthdays, or seeing my friends having fun chatting on facebook etc.
I'm glad that I don't feel like that anymore. There are several reasons for this. First, I've changed my thoughts, not to define friendships as I used to have at school last time, people and the environment are different, I can't put myself in the past anymore, I got to jump out, open my heart for newcomers, especially, and accept the new "mode" while building the friendships here. Second, I do hang out, chat and talk with my friends, do some activities with them. Everything goes smoothly. I'm feeling happy with what I have now. And I'm glad that I have someone to listen to all my complains, stupid stories n bla bla bla~~:)
I miss my family and friends too back at Port Dickson. We grow up together, we sometimes have small fights and got back together again, we listen we share, that's irreplaceable. But I know, we cant stay side by side together the whole life, like we used to have in the small class at school. We sometimes have to face things alone, or with others. It doesn't mean that we abandon you, but how can they help you? We are not talking about movies, or dramas, this is the reality. You know well they are inside your heart, and you too, are inside their hearts.
Open your mind and heart, accept the new ones, you'll find out that they are amazing too! Be strong, friend's friend:)
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Sunday, September 4, 2011
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